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Nen hay khong nen dap ung “chuyen ay” |
 “Chuyen ay” la bieu hien cua cam xuc va nhung tinh cam yeu thuong o muc cao nhat. Moi lan chuyen ay dien ra la deu co nhung kham pha va cam xuc rieng.
Trong cuoc song tinh cam, chuyen co nen hay khong nen dap ung chuyen ay de thoa man luc trao dang tinh cam va sinh ly cua chang cung that kho noi.
Nguyen nhan: phai nu cung co nhung ngan ngai va khong phai bat cu luc nao cung muon la nguoi chu dong. Nguoc lai, chang cung co uoc ao, khat vong ma doi khi mong muon do kho co the bieu lo duoc bang loi. Nhung mong uoc tham kin do la gi vay? Va ban phai lam gi de dap lai niem mong uoc cua chang?
Hay tim nhung “tieu diem” kich thich tren co the chang
Phan lon cac chang deu co mot "tieu diem" kich thich. Tuy nhien, ho luon uoc muon duoc vo minh vuot ve nhe nhang nhung duong net "mat tien" nam tinh, tren mai toc, tren khuon nguc vam vo, tren ban tay, tren cai bung bia goi cam cua minh. Nhung cai vuot ve au yem mang den cho chang niem hanh phuc kho ta. Boi cac chang cho rang, khi nang vuot ve chang dieu do the hien long yeu thuong triu men ma nang danh tang cho nguoi yeu dau cua minh.
Du tat ca nhung tieu diem kich thich ay o chang khong duoc hoan hao (dieu nay thi chang biet hon ai het) thi nhung ngon tay thon cua ban "du lich" tren chiec mui, cai cam, doi moi hay vang tran buong binh. Nhung cu dong nhe nhang cua ban giong nhu mot loi khen ngoi khien chang me man va thich thu vo chung. Nhung hanh dong nay cung khien chang tro nen tu tin hon khi o ben ban.
Hay luu y dap ung cua chang
Nhung khi ban chu dong hon chang mac du chang khong tu choi va co nhung hanh dong day ban ra nhung chang cu nhu mot buc tuong khong co xuc cam thi hay tin rang luc ay chang dang met moi, chi muon nghi ngoi nhung khong no lam ban buon. Hay nhu rat co the chang dang gian ban va dang co lam lanh nen khong dam noi gi. …
Tren thuc te, nhung tinh huong tren khong phai la hiem gap va nhung luc ay ban nen thong cam cho anh ay va khong nen dap ung chang nhung luc nhu vay.
(- Theo Suc tre Viet Nam)
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| [By Kimber Fulcher] [03/Mar/07] |
